- Leave them behind.
- My ADHD social skills.
- I can’t put up with much.
- Thanks for my ADHD medication.
- ADHD behavior
- Sometimes it’s just all ADHD.
ADHD – Frustrated, Irritable, and Discouraged
I get easily frustrated, often over little things, and I’m irritable, which is a symptom of ADHD, and sometimes I get discouraged, tho not often. But I have a strategy.
The Strategy
I’ve developed the habit of saying “Thank you.” Occasionally, I will list all the things I have to be thankful for (unlike some more positive thinkers, I do not include ADHD in this list.) It’s quite a long list. I am generally thanking God, but you can do this non-spiritually if you prefer.
After reciting the list a number of times, a new habit is formed. It’s stimulus response – now, when I just say “Thank you,” I get the feeling of gratitude and peace that comes with going through the list, without needing to go through the list. “Thank you” is the stimulus, and the improved state of mind is the conditioned response.
If you are reading this, you at the least are literate, relatively intact, and have access to the internet. You are more fortunate than what? – 85% of the human population of the world?
Let us say, “Thank you.”
doug
Bonus Links
12 Things You Don’t Know About Me and My ADHD
ADHD and Irritable, number two
Illustrative Comment O the Day
Now, why did the $%^&^&%$ pictures wind up at the top of the $&**&*^%$ post?
Idle Question O the Day
Do you know anybody like Tom?
@addstrategies #adhd #add @dougmkpdp @thebullyonline #bully #bullying #thebullyonline
Good strategy. I have done this myself on occasion, but need to make it a habit.
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hon- yes, for me, making habits is key.
thank you for commenting
doug
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That’s pretty good I kinda do same thing except I write in journal only positive thoughts I started doing it this year and I noticed my negative thoughts are not as plentiful anymore. So you can retrain how you look at life!!! And I’m 39 .. Therapy , Vyvanse , my journal , exercise , I’m doing so much better!!!!
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Mental – that’s good. i do write down a few things I’m thankful for each bedtime.
thank you for commenting
doug
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