Warning – Intimate Material, Viewer Discretion Advised
We with ADD ADHD tend to say, and do, inappropriate things. This material may be inappropriate, but it’s such a good illustration of the effect of attitude that I have to share it.
The new age theory is that we create our own reality. Here is an example.
Since I closed my practice I don’t take showers as often. I don’t think frequent showers are good for our skin, especially in this dry climate. And I understand that the French don’t bathe daily. But my main reason was my ADD ADHD obsession with time. I dreaded and resented the loss of the time it took to shower. The time loss is what I focused on.
But my wife was not entirely happy with my new approach. So I’ve resumed the daily shower. But I changed my focus. The warm water feels really good on my skin. I focus on that. So now, instead of resentment and dread, I enjoy the showers and look forward to them.
It’s about attitude. And that is one of the things we have some control over.
PS I hope this hasn’t offended anyone. We’re all adults, after all.