Life can be hard. Life with ADD or ADHD is harder than without it. There are lots of things worse tho. So, is this whining or just acknowledging facts?
But life with ADD or ADHD can become a lot easier as we recognize problems, then apply the principle: problem, strategy, habit, rule. And getting on top of even one small problem can make a significant difference in our life- like losing my keys, for example.
and on top of that, ADD has some benefits too. like creativity for example.