We with ADD and ADHD have a 2.7 times higher rate of depression than the general public where the rate is about 10%.
reasons: 1. Childhood abuse, shame, failures make us vulnerable to depression. 2. our continued failures and poor performances, along with the criticism and poor relationships foster it. 3. possibly the genes involved in each overlap, so they appear together 4. we also have higher rates of substance abuse, and the two conditions foster each other.
depression is a medical illness, whereas unhappiness, sadness, blues, frustration, grieving, etc are all normal non-medical parts of life (tho one can sometimes benefit from help with them)
strategies:
1. get help – therapy, counseling, and if moderate or severe, medication
2. use strategies to cope better with the ADD
3. learn to stop the self criticism
4. minimize contact with negative critical people
5. stay active socially and physically even if you don’t feel like it
6. faith and a spiritual life are somewhat protective against depression; a critical restrictive religion is not.

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I agreed with every single sentence here! Been there – gone through it and glad to say came out the other side. There IS hope!
wow! and thank you for the comment, it is good to mention hope, since one is the common symptoms of real depression is to have no hope. I’ve been thru it twice, hope never again. glad you are doing well.
I am – your advice to others here absolutely nails it for what is important to get through depression when you have ADHD.
thanks again
Thank you for this. Personally I have found that getting enough long chain Omega 3 fatty acids (fish oil tablets work) has really helped me. Exercise also helps, but I’m not good at doing that regularly.
thank you! i recommend the fatty acid for everyone, ADD or depressed or not – helps the brain, heart and all muscles. and so does exercise.
thank you for commenting.